today’s quotes ü

Don’t let your special character and values, the secret that you know and no one else does, the truth – don’t let that get swallowed up by the great chewing complacency.~ Aesop

The depth and strength of a human character are defined by its moral reserves. People reveal themselves completely only when they are thrown out of the customary conditions of their life, for only then do they have to fall back on their reserves. ~ Leon Trotsky

another quote ü

Why did we break up?

I have to confess

I was a two timer

I loved myself more than I loved you.

~anonymous

love is not enough. you can not live by love alone. those songs, those songs are not true. you should know better than that. your life is not meant to be just another fairy tale. you have to work hard for that happiness. you should know what you want. if love, along the way, might help you go through your journey, then let it be. but you should know the difference of love, life, and your being. you should know.

quote of the day

Look at a day when you are supremely satisfied at the end. It’s not a day when you lounge around doing nothing, it’s when you’ve had everything to do and you’ve done it!~ Margaret Thatcher

quote for the day

The best motivation is self-motivation. The guy says, i wish someone would come by and turn me on. What if they don’t show up? You’ve got to have a better plan for your life than that. ~ Jim Rohn

swinging- a rated meaning

Swinging- year 2008

i have acquired a new meaning for swinging. i call it ‘new’ since it’s my first time to know the other meaning of swinging.

swinging- to be involve in a casual sexual relationship.

i was able to know this because of my boyfriend who accidentally read an article in the Internet about it.

the articles i have read stated that there are even clubs who cater to something like this.

it’s not adultery, i believe, since the couple decide together and do the deed with the other person knowing about it. i just thought that it was nice for them to have a relationship with someone else without putting too much concern on commitment and totally enjoying it.

i do not know what the Catholic church would say about it. but setting aside religion, i think that it was good compare to adultery.ü though, i personally don’t think i would be doing such deed.

love quote

“A lover is a mirror through which you can see yourself more clearly.” -Zhou Yu

it’s a matter of being secured with yourself and your relationship. if you feel forced to be someone who you really are not, maybe it’s time to show to your lover who you really is. it will help both of you since your not living a life full of pretensions.

bits and pieces

“Sometimes there’s no one to listen to what you really might like to say at a certain moment. The paper will always listen.” ~ Naomi Shihab Nye

I certainly agree to it. In todays technology, we might also say that ‘the keyboard’ and ‘wordpress’ would listen. yeah! love it!

people don’t always need to talk to someone. sometimes, lurking in the corner of my bed with no one beside me and just staring at a certain spot makes me feel at peace. i remembered the book Tuesdays with Morrie. there was a paragraph about silence. with all the noise that our environment feeds at us, don’t we just love if silence would visit us at a certain moment? i do love silence in certain times of my day.